As a BVSC STARS Parent or Family Member, I: 

• understand that I am a role model and I am accountable for my actions and must lead by example
• understand that my actions, good and bad, reflect directly not only on myself but also on the team, and BVSC. A team and club’s reputation is built on behavior, courtesy, sportsmanship and playing ability
• understand that verbally abusing players, coaches, referees, spectators, or opponents is unacceptable
• will respect my coaches’ time by being on time to drop off or pick up players for all practices and games
• will not coach, criticize, confront, argue with or make negative comments intended for players, opponents, coaches, referees, or other spectators. Sideline comments at practices and games should always be positive
• will support the coach and refrain from making inappropriate comments in front of my children as they will carry that attitude onto the soccer field
• will encourage my child (with parent in attendance) to discuss soccer related issues with the coach
• will discuss constructive concerns regarding the coach, players or club policies first with the coach, then if needed, with the Director of their age group and finally, with the Technical Director
• understand that the amount of playing time my child receives in games will be based on their skills, punctuality, attitude and practice/game performance. I know that they may receive more or less playing time than their teammates and playing time is not guaranteed (The coach will make every effort to provide 50% playing time during each half for all players U8 – U12 that adhere to this commitment)
• will abide by the “FIFA Rules of the Game” and the rules, policies and procedures of BVSC, Heartland Soccer Association and any corresponding tournament
• understand that it is a privilege to watch my child participate as a member of BVSC, and that privilege can be suspended if my behavior is found to be inconsistent with the expected, acceptable behavior
• will use the 24 Hour Rule when I am concerned about soccer related issues that require me to talk with the coach. 24 Hour Rule: If a parent is unhappy with an issue regarding their child or team, BVSC strongly recommends waiting 24 hours to discuss the issue. Cooler heads are inevitably more productive. 

* I have read and fully understand the bvSC stars Parent & family COMMITMENTS and EXPECTATIONS as it pertains to my family’s participation in BVSC. 

First offense:

A meeting will take place with all involved parties (Player, Parent, Coach, Director and if necessary the BVSC Disciplinary Committee) to discuss the issue and ultimate resolution

Second offense:

A two-week suspension from all team activities will be enforced for the involved party

Third offense:

The person(s) in violation will be suspended from any team involvement for the remainder of the current season. Any future return to play/involvement will not be guaranteed but will be granted if reconciliation can be reached. Involvement will then be granted on a probationary basis. Any violation during that time may result in dismissal from BVSC.

If an offense is severe in nature, BVSC reserves the right to move directly to the consequences of the second or third offense after which a meeting may take place.